Why Agencies Must Sometimes Say No.
Agencies often mistake service for servitude, saying yes to every client request even when it hurts the brand. True partnership means protecting, not pleasing — and pushing back when needed to safeguard long-term trust and integrity.
I resisted commenting on the Cracker Barrel situation while it was happening. Plenty of content already oversaturating feeds, so no need to add to the righteous noise.
But as the Cracker Barrel rebranding agency predictably was let go, it brings up a lot of tough, interesting questions.
Who gave direction? Who made decisions? Does an agency work to please the client, or to do the right thing even in the face of a client who pushes for something else? I don’t know what happened in this case, but I certainly recognize the signs of having no brave voice of reason.
There’s an uncomfortable truth in agency life: too many firms confuse service with servitude. They think being a “good partner” means saying yes to every request, no matter how off-brand, short-sighted, or self-destructive.
That’s not a partnership. That’s a lack of responsibility.
If we’re serious about being stewards of brands, then sometimes we have to do the harder thing: say no.
Pushing back for the greater good.
Pushing back is hard. Clients pay the bills. They have their own pressures, timelines, and politics. The safer move is to smile, nod, and execute – the instant gratification of getting wins without boat rocking.
But short-term nods = long-term pain. “Safe” erodes trust. If all you do is say yes, you become an order-taker, not a guide. And the moment something fails, it’s on the agency. At that point, you’ve not just lost a client — you’ve threatened your reputation, your credibility, and your future.
True partnership lives in the tension between honoring the client’s voice and protecting the brand’s integrity. That tension is where real trust is built.
The role of the protector.
Our job isn’t just to produce. It’s to protect.
- Protect the brand’s consistency. Make sure nothing goes too rogue.
- Protect the audience’s trust. They notice shortcuts, gimmicks, and pandering.
- Protect the client’s future. Leaders under pressure often want the quick win. We have to keep an eye on the long game.
That means sometimes our greatest value isn’t what we create, but also what we prevent.
Attention is not always the goal.
In the attention economy, the temptation is real: lean into outrage, controversy, or shock to grab eyeballs. The worst part? It works. For about five minutes.
But outrage doesn’t build equity. It builds volatility. It trades lasting loyalty for temporary clicks. And once a brand becomes addicted to that cycle, it’s almost impossible to rebuild trust.
The job of a true agency partner is to remind clients that not all attention is good attention. Sustainable growth comes from clarity, consistency, and courage. Not from gambling with your reputation.
How to say no without losing trust.
Saying no doesn’t mean being combative. It means being clear, empathetic, and anchored in purpose:
- Frame pushback as protection, not opposition.
- Show how the alternative undermines their stated goals.
- Offer a better option. A “yes, but differently” path.
- Keep the dialogue open, setting the relationship up to feel like collaboration, not resistance.
The bottom line.
Agencies that simply execute will always be replaceable. Agencies that protect earn trust that lasts far beyond any single project.
It takes courage to say no. But if you’re unwilling to risk the relationship in the short term, you’ll never build the kind of partnership that endures in the long term.
True service isn’t doing everything you’re asked.
True service is protecting your client’s future — even from themselves.
